Hi Liz
Liz you will definitely have to take your husband back to his doctor .What he us doing does not seem right he can't be doing that all the time it will cause friction between the both of you so if I were you I would make that appointment and soon
Hope you get good results from your Doctor
All the best!!!
Therese Byrne 🇮🇪 ☘️

Wow, it sounds like you need to talk to his DR about this. Could it be he ignores it because it is hard to change his clothes? Consider getting some spill resistant cups like sports bottles or kids sipping cups with straws. Iirc they open and close fairly easily.

Thank you we using pads for bed and depends pull ups at night but during the day he spells his lunch coke tea water on him and gets soak he does not feel his wet his loosing feeling. he now has broke foot he ran is motor chair into end of our bed he turns it up all the way any thing in his way hooks motor chair to it keeps going I have moved every thing I can out his way he is mad he can't do what he used to. the Parkinson is taking him more away each day.

Might use bed pads, can get on Amazon, so bed does not get wet.