I would truly appreciate finding someone who can give my husband a shower 2 X a week and shave him.
Ask your hospital for information on Elderly Assistance. I have actually hired someone who comes in 2x a week. She shaves, showers, cooks, does laundry, etc. There is so much good material available if you can just figure out where to find it. Good luck
Some communities have groups that will help seniors if asked. Don't know about yours.
Is he a veteran?
Can you afford to hire a part time caregiver? There are a lot of companies out there that do that now.
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