Connect with others who understand.

  •   Learn from expert-reviewed resources
  •   Real advice from people who’ve been there
  •   People who understand what you’re going through
Sign Up Log In
All Resources Treatments A-Z Personal Assistant Help Center Crisis
Powered By
Real members of MyParkinsonsTeam have posted questions and answers that support our community guidelines, and should not be taken as medical advice. Looking for the latest medically reviewed content by doctors and experts? Visit our resource section.

Is it normal for my husband to want me with him constantly in the rehab hospital since he broke his hip?

A MyParkinsonsTeam Subscriber asked a question 💭
March 23
 · 
Be the first to react
Survey Results: Stresses and Rewards of Parkinson’s Caregiving Read Article...
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

I think that answer is yes. I spent a week with diarrhea so bad I could not walk then a weeks stay in the hospital getting it under control and 2 weeks in rehab just to ge t me walking again. My husband spent 24 hours every day. With me in the hospital and then every day from 8am to8pm in rehab. I was delirious in the hospital for 6 of those days. He wouldn't go home and I am so grateful for him.

March 23
MyParkinsonsTeam

Is it normal for your husband to want you with him constantly during his rehab hospital stay after breaking his hip?

Yes, this is very common for people with Parkinson's disease. The combination of being in an unfamiliar environment, recovering from a hip fracture, and managing Parkinson's symptoms can create significant Show Full Answer

Is it normal for your husband to want you with him constantly during his rehab hospital stay after breaking his hip?

Yes, this is very common for people with Parkinson's disease. The combination of being in an unfamiliar environment, recovering from a hip fracture, and managing Parkinson's symptoms can create significant anxiety and a strong need for the comfort of a familiar presence.

Parkinson's can affect emotional regulation and increase feelings of vulnerability, especially during stressful situations like hospitalization. Your husband may feel more secure and less anxious when you're nearby.

Many care partners experience similar situations. One MyParkinsonsTeam member shared their experience of needing to use baby monitors to keep track of their loved one and the importance of being present during difficult times.

While it's understandable that he wants you there, remember that taking care of yourself is equally important. Consider:

- Setting specific visiting hours when possible
- Taking short breaks for meals or rest
- Asking family or friends to visit during times you need to step away
- Communicating with hospital staff about his anxiety

It's okay to need time for yourself while still being supportive. Finding balance will help you both through this recovery period.

March 23
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

Yes! In sickness and in health....as long as you both shall live!

March 26
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

I would think it is normal. Hospitals are stressful and boring. Having company would help with both. I stayed with my husband from morning to evening when he had his knee replaced several years ago - long before his Parkinson's. I went for occasional walks, when he was getting treatment, but otherwise I spent most of the day with him.

March 23

Related Questions

View All

What are the effects of anesthesia/surgery on PD?

A MyParkinsonsTeam Member asked a question 💭
Allentown, PA
May 25, 2016

Home Care Post Hip Surgery

A MyParkinsonsTeam Member asked a question 💭
Clarksburg, MD
November 26, 2022