I would take some time for yourself. Also suggest some therapy to help you figure out what you need to do to keep going. That may mean staying but hiring help so you aren't trying to do it all, or it may mean putting your husband in a nursing home. It may mean couples counseling if your husband is willing to participate.
Denmike you may try to do what my wife does, She reminds me that our vows were for better or worse and I need to remember that along with making sure I'm ok she also has to handle the things she normally does and the things I can no longer do and it's very hard. My wife mentions that to me along with reassuring me she still loves me and that tends to calm me down! I get upset and argumentative when I feel useless and down on myself and I try to remember she didn't ask for this either. You need some you time!!
Denmike , just remember that the PD is totally taking over his body and mind slowly but surely
How can you cope with anger and belittling behavior from your husband with Parkinson's?
First, it's important to understand that anger and irritability are often part of Parkinson's disease itself, not a reflection of your relationship or your worth. The disease causes changes in brain chemistry, including drops in Show Full Answer
Thank you very much for sharing. I needed to hear that, also the way your wife handles it all. That’s my next try!