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April 2
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A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

I would take some time for yourself. Also suggest some therapy to help you figure out what you need to do to keep going. That may mean staying but hiring help so you aren't trying to do it all, or it may mean putting your husband in a nursing home. It may mean couples counseling if your husband is willing to participate.

April 5
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

Denmike you may try to do what my wife does, She reminds me that our vows were for better or worse and I need to remember that along with making sure I'm ok she also has to handle the things she normally does and the things I can no longer do and it's very hard. My wife mentions that to me along with reassuring me she still loves me and that tends to calm me down! I get upset and argumentative when I feel useless and down on myself and I try to remember she didn't ask for this either. You need some you time!!

April 5
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

Denmike , just remember that the PD is totally taking over his body and mind slowly but surely

April 3
MyParkinsonsTeam

How can you cope with anger and belittling behavior from your husband with Parkinson's?

First, it's important to understand that anger and irritability are often part of Parkinson's disease itself, not a reflection of your relationship or your worth. The disease causes changes in brain chemistry, including drops in Show Full Answer

How can you cope with anger and belittling behavior from your husband with Parkinson's?

First, it's important to understand that anger and irritability are often part of Parkinson's disease itself, not a reflection of your relationship or your worth. The disease causes changes in brain chemistry, including drops in dopamine, which directly affects mood and behavior. This doesn't make the behavior acceptable, but knowing it's disease-related can help you remember it's not your fault.

Immediate steps you can take:

- Talk with his healthcare providers about these behavioral changes. They need to know what's happening, as medications can sometimes contribute to anger and irritability, and adjustments might help.

- Consider whether he's experiencing other symptoms like confusion, delusions, or paranoia, which can accompany Parkinson's and increase agitation.

- Plan ahead for difficult moments. Some caregivers find it helpful to have strategies ready for when anger escalates.

Protecting your own wellbeing:

You cannot pour from an empty cup. Caregiver burnout is real, and the emotional toll of dealing with anger and belittling behavior is significant.

- Seek therapy or counseling for yourself. Healthcare providers can refer you to support services specifically for caregivers.

- Practice self-care regularly, not just when you're at your breaking point. This might mean taking breaks, setting boundaries, or asking others for help.

- Remember that you deserve respect and kindness, even while caregiving.

If you're feeling overwhelmed (which it sounds like you are), reaching out to his medical team and getting professional support for yourself should be your priority right now.

April 2
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

Thank you very much for sharing. I needed to hear that, also the way your wife handles it all. That’s my next try!

April 6

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