Where I live there is no help for getting paid to care for my husband by social security. My husband does collect social security, but I am not entitled to any pay. We don't qualify for Medicaid as we make a little bit too much to qualify, but that little bit is just enough to disqualify us for almost any support at all.

I googled it and it looks like it usually is needs to be either through the VA (for vets) or Medicaid, though some states may offer help or some long term care insurance. https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/financial-legal...