Connect with others who understand.

  • Learn from expert-reviewed resources
  • Real advice from people who’ve been there
  • People who understand what you’re going through
Sign Up Log In
Powered By
Real members of MyParkinsonsTeam have posted questions and answers that support our community guidelines, and should not be taken as medical advice. Looking for the latest medically reviewed content by doctors and experts? Visit our resource section.

Since I have had to sleep on the recliner due to back and hip pain, my husband is not aware of my sleep problems. Well, he knows that I have had problems in the past. I find myself trying to hide the fact that sometimes I don't sleep at all
I spend the night on the laptop, playing games or researching articles related to medicine, gardening, and even shopping online. I listen for my husband to get up to go to the bathroom. When I hear the bedroom door creak, I quickly turn off the lamp, close… read more

April 4, 2024
 · 
Reactions

Answer Summary

Members connected warmly over the question of hiding health changes from caregivers, with most sharing that they, too, downplay symptoms or... Read more

Members connected warmly over the question of hiding health changes from caregivers, with most sharing that they, too, downplay symptoms or sleepless nights to avoid burdening their loved ones. Several members described the emotional tug-of-war between protecting their caregivers from worry and the real risks of staying silent, with some sharing that openness actually strengthened their relationships and helped build a better care team. A recurring theme was the importance of honest communication, with many agreeing that preparing loved ones early makes tough decisions easier later on.

A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

I found it important to let wife and close friends know. I worked with my uncle who had PD and only told his wife. Many of his friends did not understand his not calling or returning calls due to bad memory. He did not see a movement doctor to help him. When he did he discovered every exercise he had chosen did not help his problems. Even his diet was wrong.

For me fighting PD needs a team effort.

April 5, 2024
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

I guess that I am a little different to other responses. I let all of my loved ones know when I am having problems. I am really in need of emotional support at times and them knowing what is happening is key to that.

April 4, 2024
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

Michael848, I think you have offered a very good insight into dealing with what is very unpredictable. Thank you for your answer.

April 6, 2024
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

I think focusing on problems and telling everyone about them could drive friends and people away.

April 4, 2024
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member

No there's a time to say I need help

April 4, 2024

Related Questions

View All
A MyParkinsonsTeam Member asked a question 💭
Elk Bend Idaho