My husband has parkinsons. He sleeps most of the day. I still work from home and am home with him 24/7. I could be retired but thought still working would help the loneliness but it does not. Im at a point I am scared to go out of the house incase he needs me. I wear a baby monitor so I can hear him but will I get to him in time. Have I just lost mind. Just kidding but do feel that way some 😒days.
I know it can be hard being a caregiver I have one and I try to give him breaks during the day even if it's only a couple of hours a day you can get help having someone come in a couple hours a day to give you some down time so you can rest or do something for yourself you just have to get a hold of DHS apply for home health care and once approved they can find you someone who will come in for you that's how my adopted brother became my caregiver I hope this helps you out
Best Wishes
Theresa Generes
You have absolutely NOT lost your mind — what you're feeling is incredibly common among caregivers, and it makes complete sense. The baby monitor idea is actually something other caregivers use too, so you're already thinking smart!
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Thank you Kay, I love your reply. You give me a lot to think about and hopefully do some of your suggestions. I know I need to take care of myself and need to follow some of you ideas/instructions above. I need to trust others to take care of him. ❤️