I have told my kids the same thing. I just hope I have the where with all and the nerve to pull it off.
I've actually made that decision, when I get to where I can't wipe my own butt I'm going into ALF. I will not put that on them. They have family and responsibilitie I've been down that road when their dad had Ewing sarcoma cancer and was terminal. I took care of him for last 5 yrs before he passed away he was my soul mate. I would that they would visit like once a week. My kids don't know this yet, my daughter just now figured out I'm not going to get any better and my son really doesn't have to face it because he doesn't see me but maybe twice a year. This is my plan.
That is where I have been. It sucks because morning pils to them mean anytime they get around to it. Therapy was taken away from me. I’ll be poking into that tomorrow. The room is superb.