Being ill and not having money or assets is so burdensome and upsetting. Hang in there. Things usually get better

Sorry, I can’t help with Medicaid but you can purchase a soft helmet on Amazon for under $35 so your husband can visit the kitchen again. I saved my head several times with one. Falls are going to happen eventually

There should be a local agency that deals with Senior issues or financial assistance. Try calling 211 or your local social services office. If you have a Senior Center or Social Security office in your area they might be able to help.

He's not a Veteran (God bless your husband). He lives in a decent apartment but is virtually destitute with no money, investments or anything of value. He has a car which he leases. My son has to supplement his rent. So if there's a cost to anything, that would be a no.

Like you, we couldn't seem to figure out how to get some actual in-home help. And then, we discovered my husband's VA benefits will do just that. Praise God, the help is long overdue!