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You know that in Canada there are only 100,000 people diagnosed with Parkinson’s. Do you ever feel cheated and ask why me

A MyParkinsonsTeam Member asked a question 💭
June 2
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@A MyParkinsonsTeam Member, If you study the history of Parkinson's, and actually all neurological disorders, you will see that they have increased throughout civilization. I believe that this in direct correlation to society moving away from a more natural culture, toward the unnatural. We, as a whole were healthier before additives, and genetic modification. I would go back even further, but I don't have the scientific expertise to support my stance. I would refer you to Del Bigtree with The Highwire which you can find on Rumble.com which is a platform similar to YouTube, but a safe place for controversial conversations. I hope that this helps.

June 2
MyParkinsonsTeam

That "why me?" feeling is completely valid and something many people with Parkinson's wrestle with, especially when the numbers make it feel like such an unlucky draw.

Feeling cheated, angry, or even grief-stricken after a Parkinson's diagnosis is a very normal emotional response. You're not alone in that. Many Show Full Answer

That "why me?" feeling is completely valid and something many people with Parkinson's wrestle with, especially when the numbers make it feel like such an unlucky draw.

Feeling cheated, angry, or even grief-stricken after a Parkinson's diagnosis is a very normal emotional response. You're not alone in that. Many MyParkinsonsTeam members have shared similar feelings. One member wrote about spending years feeling like they needed to be "better, stronger, healthier, and in control" before finally finding peace in accepting who they are.

Another member shared that after choosing to accept their diagnosis, they woke up the next morning feeling an incredible sense of peace — something they hadn't expected.

The journey from "why me?" to acceptance looks different for everyone, but many find it helpful to:

- Allow themselves to feel the emotions without judgment
- Stop hiding or masking their condition from others
- Prioritize their own needs and rest
- Connect with others who truly understand the experience
- Focus on what they *can* control, rather than what they can't

It doesn't happen overnight, and that's okay. The feelings of being cheated may come and go, even long after diagnosis. Being kind to yourself through those moments matters enormously.

June 2

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