Plenty of Fish - it is free, but you find people with no money there. You can also join the same site for a fee. Eharmony & Match.com have good reputations. Beware of scammers. Never send someone money for any reason. If the letter sounds canned or the person doesn't answer any of your specific questions it is probably not real. Be suspicious of any letter that starts with "Yours is the only profile that interests me..." if you find someone you are interested in, get off the site & communicate with Skype or videocalls. Some friends of mine who have a very happy marriage met at an online dating website then Skyped daily, & she came all the way from Scotland to meet him. If you arrange to meet someone, do it in a public place. Do not put on your profile that you have PD. I would drive to the first meeting, park just out of sight & tell him I was there, then let him know I have a little mild PD. In all cases but 1, by then he was committed enough that he met with me happily anyway. The 1 was a liar anyway, pretending to have horses, but his horses were out of state. He imagined going hiking & having to carry me back (I could have carried him!) Many of the men I met are still good friends even though our relationship did not progress beyond that point. I met my beloved husband John on the free Plenty of Fish site. We talked on the phone & set up a first date but he called to reschedule it because he wasn't sure what time he would be back from taking his 24-year-old son 4-wheeling. I thought that if he was taking his 24-year-old son 4-wheeling then he probably was not a rapist or a serial killer, so I asked if I could come along. It was a fantastic 1st date & our marriage has been a wonderful blessing to both of us.