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Members deeply connected over the question of accepting help after a fall, with many sharing the struggle between fierce independence and the... Read more
It is pride and its uglier cousin, shame.😞
However, if people could ask two questions before diving in to "help"...they would be;
"Can I help?"
And if "yes"...
"How?"
Maybe doctors should prescribe these...
I tell people the same thing especially because when I fall I could actually damage something and by moving me they could actually cause more damage
If I fall and someone asks how can they help me ? I will sometimes suggest by making a cash donation to my wheelchair fund .
I’ll gladly take help from anyone who offered it. I do caution them to let me complete my inventory first. I have check to see if everything is working, before I allow anyone to touch me.